However, you may not fully comprehend the analogy I am imposing, but once you have come to the realization that YOU are your own person, and everyone else around you is out to make ends meet, then you are already become independent. Independence won't always provide you strength, I have plenty of weaknesses, but it's up to you how you handle those weaknesses. My weakness are people. Though I am not a people person, I feel for them, I deep compassion when someone is need, I give my world to them. I don't try to fix their world, but I infect them with my positivity. Try it, it makes life easier and far more simple.
On the contrary, start with being emotionally independent, then you can progress to be financially, environmentally independent. Only think about what is BEST for YOU. Not others. They just read your book, they don't write it like you do. People who judge are not mean, they ARE the judgment that they mask within their negativity. Meaning, they can't do it for themselves, so preach their insecurity by pre-assuming the status of others.
Then, the NEEDS and WANTS begin to play like a broken record in your mind, therefore, it consumes you. This is called reasonable. You begin to start compartmentalizing the importance things for your survival.
***Thanks, JarmaineTV
